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Anonymous
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Dear Cupid, I love my boyfriend very much. I've never felt so strongly about a person. He's in college and I'm graduating this year from high school. As much as I love him now, I'm scared that I might feel some sort of attraction to someone else when I go to college, especially because I'll be exposed to so many new people. He's the kind of guy who would never cheat, and I really hope I'm not the kind of girl who does. Is this a natural concern? Should I do anything?

Dear Anonymous,

This is a great question and I will try to answer it the best I can. Life is filled with experiences
and challenges. Life is also filled with many people you will come across. College is a whole different world and maybe you will find someone. Feelings change all the time in a relationship. Maybe the feelings grow stronger or maybe the feelings just stop. But listen, you are spending much time in the future. Take one day at a time. Focus on today instead of tomorrow. What do you want NOW. In time the future will come. But let life work itself. Everything happens for a reason and this feeling is very common. I hope this helped.

Love, Cupid xoxoxo

Notes: 1 1/20/13 — 2:00am Short URL: http://tmblr.co/ZENUsxcBQoGy
Anonymous
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Dear Cupid, I have commitment and trust issues and I feel like it gets in the way of me building strong relationships. What should I do about it?

Dear Anonymous,

Many people have trust issues that start off when they are little children. There is not one way to trust. It’s all about YOU.. You need to be able to trust yourself and love yourself before you think about being with or loving someone else. I know trust comes with time. It will come if it is meant to.

Love Cupid xoxoxo

12/30/12 — 3:08pm Short URL: http://tmblr.co/ZENUsxaYl9yb
Anonymous
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Dear Cupid, I recently broke up with my boyfriend of six days, and now I love him even more. He said he'll take me back if I really want to, but we fought so much during the relationship that I think it may be bad for us to start again. What should I do? This is the longest I've ever been with someone, and I don't want to let him go. <3

Dear anonymous,

Breakups are the hardest thing. If its 1 week or 1 year each person goes thru it. If you don’t want to let him go then win him back. But know he won’t always be there for you, so don’t play with his heart. If you decide to get back try and work for a healthy relationship In which you two grow with EACH OTHER. There are TWO in the relationship.

Love, Cupid
Xoxoxo

10/20/12 — 3:20pm Short URL: http://tmblr.co/ZENUsxVf3tmJ
Anonymous
asks:
Dear Cupid, What should I do if the boy I like says he's gay? I think he's just saying it to make me go away, but what if he's really telling the truth?

Dear anonymous,

If he really is gay then the answer is move on. If he isn’t gay the answer is move on. That is hard to hear but it is the truth. He told you. You just need to trust and find your prince. Everything happens for a reason. EVERYTHING.

Love, Cupid
Xoxoxo

10/20/12 — 3:17pm Short URL: http://tmblr.co/ZENUsxVf3BMF
Anonymous
asks:
i c ur coments r shortr now then eralier in the yearr. y do u not take time 2 rite any more?

Dear Anonymous,
Yes, I just looked back to my old answers and they weren’t the best. I apologize but CUPID is back!

Love, Cupid xoxo

8/20/12 — 2:47am Short URL: http://tmblr.co/ZENUsxRn8lIe
Anonymous
asks:
I see you got your background from backgrounddiva(.)com... Are you a bit of a diva yourself when it comes to love?

I would say I am a diva. When it comes to love…? I do not think so.

4/18/12 — 11:40pm Short URL: http://tmblr.co/ZENUsxJvUUga
Anonymous
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Dear Cupid, I still am in love with my ex but she left a long time ago. sometimes i try to associate with her but i feel like shes already moved on. My heart is broken and i cant deal with it. Should i stop trying??

If you are “in love” you never give up. A broken heart only makes you stronger inside! :)

4/18/12 — 11:39pm Short URL: http://tmblr.co/ZENUsxJvUH40
Anonymous
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dear cupid, you must be a huuge ladies man..or um women..i dont really no what u r, but since you no so much about relationships. yeah? is this true? what's it like to have people be in love with you?

Dear Anonymous,

Love is what makes the world go round. It is not only the best feeling but also it can hurt. But all the good times when you are in love and in this OUT OF IT mood you will make it through the hurt. Im not saying Love sucks. Love is like a flower. You need to take care of the person and your love will grow. I dont know if this is what you wanted. but thats all.

Love, Cupid.

3/6/12 — 8:04pm Short URL: http://tmblr.co/ZENUsxHb42n4
Anonymous
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Dear Cupid- My best friend has feelings for me, and I think I like her back, but whenever I look at her, I want to tell myself that I don't like her in that way. What do I do?

Dear Anonymous,

That little bird inside you that is saying that you don’t like her is saying it because you think you should just BE FRIENDS. Some of the best relationships start with being Best friends. If you don’t know how you feel you need to ask yourself if you are willing to end a friendship. Not all friendships end but most do. Take her on a date and see how you feel.

Love, Cupid XOXO

10/25/11 — 8:35pm Short URL: http://tmblr.co/ZENUsxB73Fpv
Anonymous
asks:
Dear Cupid, I think I like this girl, who is practically my best friend, but I don't know. How can I be sure?

Dear Anonymous,

If you are even thinking maybe you like her you need to look into things. Maybe this girl likes you back or maybe she thinks you two should just be friends. You will never know unless you find out. Yes, you are probably scared to find out the answer but what if it is a good one? It might get weird the days after but you two will brush it off. If you really want to know if forsure you like her then take her on a date and find out more about her.

Love, Cupid XOXO

10/25/11 — 8:31pm Short URL: http://tmblr.co/ZENUsxB72Wny